tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-205372352011-09-15T11:49:06.057-07:00For the urban challenged romantically impaired African American<br><br> I started seeing the growing need of African Americans, who needed advice on romance and intimate situations with their mate so I decided to start an educational movement to help out those who crave a stronger and enduring relationship.MotownMomMusings.comnoreply@blogger.comBlogger311100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20537235.post-80222648519746058302007-11-29T08:56:00.000-08:002007-11-29T08:59:21.834-08:00

The purpose of the Art of Touch instruction guide is to supplement the ?Touch Me with Love? instructional massage video and teach practical tools to enhance bonding, communication and creativity among couples. Couples who enjoy intimacy with one another have happier families where the children of the couples are treated with mutual respect and receive the special time and attention they need for

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Comforting This position allows for maximum eye contact. Lie on your back, with your partner sitting facing you and your pelvises touching. His legs are extended, flanking each side of your torso, and yours are draped over his thighs, relaxed. He holds your pelvis to control movement and penetration, and he can massage your abdomen, breasts, or clitoris. He can also grab onto your shoulders to

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The Sound of PleasureAural Sex Definition from Dictionary.comau?ral2 /'?r ?l/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[awr-uh l] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation: –adjective : of or pertaining to the ear or to the sense of hearing.Yes, it's been a long time since we've spoken, but I've been here, I swear I swear I swear.First things first: I'd like to let everyone know, I'm still

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This month, Dr. Debra answers a letter from an older gentleman with an ageless question: "What do you do when you find out your sexual expectations are different and you're already married?" The answer? Communication is the solution to bedroom dilemmas, so talk. Touch. Talk some more.

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By Amelia R. FarquharSo who is that hunky guy brushing his teeth in your bathroom? Snap out of it, lucky woman! He's your husband, and if you're as busy as we've been lately, chances are that work, kids and both your jam-packed schedules are putting the squeeze on the oh-so-sweet private time you two share. But shelling out big bucks for a kid-free week away in an exotic locale isn't the only way

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author anonymous What is it that drives a marital partner to engage in an outside liaison? How can you guarantee your marriage vows will be held sacred? Life is full of unpredictable twists and turns. Help keep your marital path on the straight and narrow by taking these preventive steps to guard your fidelity.Talk openly about everything and anything. Don't belittle the importance of small talk.

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Flirting is not rocket science. It is simply a common sense method of letting people know you're available without being tacky or obnoxious. AND if done properly, it is your best chance at snagging your future partner! So, get ready to demystify the art of flirting with these five fabulous flirting tips. Practice your new moves on the object of your desire this weekend…#1: Be Sincere If you're

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"We all want, above all, to be heard - but not merely to be heard. We want to be understood - heard for what we think we are saying, for what we know we meant." Communication is the principal building block of any relationship, but communication isn't just about expressing a thought. It's also about understanding what your partner is saying and conveying, back to them, that you

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By Steve Friedman Men may not melt over flowers or candlelit dinners, but there are ways to sweep them off their feet. Here’s how:Many women consider men romance-deficient. However, I can say with confidence that these women are wrong. The problem isn’t that we lack romance. We have plenty of romance. We’re unbelievably romantic. The problem is that we define romance differently than you do. And,

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From the wet noddle : http://www.wetnoodleposse.com/livingwell.htmlby Dr. Debra Holland Dear Dr. Debra,How do you say "no"? All my life I've bent over backwards for my family, trying to be a good wife and mother and daughter. Now, they just assume that I'll do whatever they want, even when it's hard for me to do so. They show absolutely no regard for my feelings. So I how do I reclaim my life,

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By Nathan PatmorI read the other day that the majority of American’s regularly have sex in just a few positions. Well, if that’s true, its time to shake things up! This article is on g spot positions. These are our favorite ways of hitting the g-spot during sex.If you like boring, normal sex, that lasts just 5 – 10 minutes, don’t read this page. If you’re feeling more adventurous, and are ready

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Talking about sexThe trick with talking about sex and things that you’d like to do in order to improve your sex life is to not bring it up right after or right before you’re actually doing the ‘deed.’You want to find a time that’s outside of the bedroom and unrushed. Talk in a secluded corner of a restaurant or in your kitchen. Stay out of the bedroom for the moment. You don’t want to cause any

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HISTORY OF SEX TOYSSex toys have been used for thousands of years and many believe they had first originated from Asia. However, it was not until the ancient Greece time that sex toys such as dildos and other phallic objects were first made popular. Evidence also suggests that the Romans were the first to mass produce sex toys for a commercial purpose. The sex toys produced during these ancient

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QUOTE OF THE DAYAll married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest - never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equal partnership.Ann Landers

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Fighting With a Spouse May be Harmful to Your HeartWomen's heart arteries are more likely to harden when they and their husbands fight, while men's arteries take more of a hit when they or their wives try to dominate fights.Wednesday, March 8, 2006By Lee Bowman - Scripps Howard News Service Women are more likely to experience hardening of heart arteries when they and their husbands show hostility

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Successful Marriages Take TimePam and Bill FarrelContributing Writers\How much time does it take to stay in love for a life time? In our book, Red Hot Monogamy, we explain the minimum time commitment we have seen necessary to maintain the connectedness needed for a healthy strong marriage. Don't just make time for love on Valentine's Day - commit to make T.I.M.E. for love year round:Ten – twenty

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Date: Thursday, March 02, 2006 By: Maggie Kim, Happen Magazine for Match.comYou and your guy have a good thing going. But sometimes it can be hard to feel 100 percent confident of his affections—especially when he’s meeting up with his ex “to catch up,” working late nights with his bubbly female coworker, or flirting back with that Starbucks barista who makes his latte every morning. Yes,

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3 Post-Valentine's Day ResolutionsDate: Wednesday, February 15, 2006By: Match.comSo Valentine’s Day has come and gone, and it wasn’t exactly what you had hoped for. Maybe you went out on a date with someone boring just to be on a date. Perhaps you commiserated with other single friends over one too many cocktails. Or maybe you stayed home and watched really bad horror flicks with a pint of rocky

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by Maryann ReidBeing creative is better than being like everyone elseYou don't need to walk in on an elephant to have a unique wedding that defies tradition. Less is more. As I was planning Marry Your Baby Daddy Day last year, many of my couples had questions about how they can make it "their" wedding when they were sharing it with 9 other couples. Below are a few suggestions to add a new

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Better Than Sex RecipesBy The Wet Noodle PooseIt's the month of love, but this month's recipes are so scrumptious you just might decide they're better than sex.Better Than Sex Pie Contributed by Pam Payne1 1/2 cups flour1 1/2 sticks margarine or butter at room temperature1 cup pecans8 ounces cream cheese1 cup powdered sugar1 large container of Cool Whip1 large (5.1-ounce) package and 1 small (3.9

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Ten Tips for Valentine VixenryBy Bridget StuartDid you know the word "vixen," far from meaning "sexy she-devil," actually means "a female fox" or "a malicious, bad-tempered woman"? In the true spirit of bad-tempered women the world over let's review the following top ten Valentine tips:1. Send yourself some flowers with an amorous note, and pretend to be flustered when they're delivered in front

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This was asked on another blog by another blogger and I thought I'd post my responses to you...Blogger (a man) wrote: IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS VALENTINE'S DAY IS COMING AND I WAS WONDERING THIS: IS THIS HOLIDAY SUPPOSE TO CATER TO JUST THE WOMEN OR SHOULD IT BE LABELED AS A COUPLE'S HOLIDAY. SHOULD MEN ALSO RECEIVE GIFTS AS SIGN OF AFFECTION OR SUCH FROM THEIR LADIES ON THIS DAY? WHAT MADE IT A DAY

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February 2, 6:30 - 8:30 at Crazy Wisdom, 114 S. Main Street, Ann Arbor. $20e-mail: pabaillie@earthlink.net www.annregentin.com• The best love letters reflect the personality of the reader as well as the writer. Learn howto write about your feelings honestly in a way that will delight the one who reads them.• Relationships have different stages, and what's appropriate for a twenty-year marriage

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"It's What Happens After You Disconnect ..."by Susie and Otto CollinsIt was pretty interesting as we look back on this situation thathappened a few weeks ago.A friend who we don't get to see very often got to see the twoof us in a "not so perfect moment." This was a moment whenlots of things were going on around us and we both had someopinions and said some things to each other that neededsome

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After cutting out hearts with things written on them like, "You're so sexy," "Thank you for being beautiful," and so on, tape them to the walls and outside curtains in the bathroom before they go in there in the morning.by Robin Touhey

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Today we have a guest blogger, Sheila Goss. Please welcome her and let us know what you think:The Simple Way to Make a Relationship StrongerBy Shelia M. GossAre you in a new relationship? Has your current relationship lost some of its pizzazz? Here are a few simple ways to help make your relationship stronger.· Listen to your mate. Sounds simple doesn’t it? When was the last time you really took

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Freeze some grapes and then use them for love making. Tickle each others nipples with them. Trail them over each others bodies. Put them in your mouth while you give your sweetheart oral pleasures.

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SECRETS OF BLISSFUL RELATIONSHIPSIs Your Marriage Going Broke?by Michael Webbhttp://www.50secrets.com/Have you noticed that newspapers report that personal debt is at anall-time high and so are divorces? Do you think there might be aconnection?In marital surveys, money and s ex usually come up as the top tworeasons for major discord between a husband and wife.One of the biggest problems facing

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Hide a dab of honey on your body and ask your mate to find it with his or her tongue.

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The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don't define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them. -Denis Waitley

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this group initially started off as a writing group, but I started seeing the growing need of African Americans and Hispanics, who needed advice on romance and intimate situations with their mate.Being a romance writer, I found that I was very instrumental in giving couples and single people hope in becoming a better person and mate.So I decided that I didn't need a degree in Romance to consult

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